Wednesday, September 16, 2015

How To Know When A Psychic Is Genuine


How To know When A Psychic Is Genuine 



          The topic of Psychics is one mostly everyone has either heard of, went to, or know something about. But there is a deeper topic inside the general information of Psychics that many people don't speak of. How do you know when a psychic is genuine? This can be a tricky topic. I think it is safe to begin with the topic of new age. Mostly everything related to new age is actually old teaching brought popular again, thus people call it new age. But there is really nothing new about it. The teachings and practices are much older then a lot of religions. But one thing is for sure, it is a popular topic, and many people want to see what its about. Sometimes people will want to categorize themselves as Psychics or Mediums without going through the proper teachings and lessons first. It takes a lot of hard work. Some might go to a psychic for themselves, and say "hey I can do that!" Or they may think that is seems easy and a quick way to make money. But the truth be told, no genuine psychic is in it for the money. Sure the money pays the bills so we can continue to share our gifts. Think of this like really good school teachers. They need to pay their bills so they can continue teaching your children and doing what they love. They're spreading their hard earned gifts, and this is the balance of our society now days. But when a person comes into the field of psychic awareness solely to make money, that spells out trouble for all. 

          So how do you really know when a psychic is true? Basically, ask them questions about themselves and their practices. For example: How long have you been doing this? How do you hear the answers? Who guides you? What are your personal beliefs? Etc. If at any time a psychic does not want to answer your questions about them, then know that this psychic is not genuine. A psychic should be an open book in a way. Why? Well it is because the clients are sharing their important questions and life stories and situations with the psychic. The least the psychic can do is be open right back. Plus it should all be about trust. Personally, Dwayne and I look at our clients as friends in a way. We wouldn't deny a friend information about us. 

          Also you may want to pay attention to their answers. Sometimes the answers to your questions may in fact be general depending upon the question and the affects of personal choices and free will upon it. However, the answers should also have some depth. It should feel like it was meant for you, and it should speak to your soul. However, if the client is rather upset about the question, for example a recent break up, then you may not feel a connection with the words depending upon the answer received. For example: You ask me, "Melody is Sam and I going to break up for good?" That question can be tricky because of your and Sam's free will to decide to break up for good or not. You are the driver of your own life. But I may get an indication from your spirit guides that the answer will be Yes, the break up is for good. When I share that information with you, it may be something you didn't want to hear. Thus you may not feel a resonance with it. Your mind may want to push that answer aside as not real, because of the emotions you're facing in regards to Sam leaving for good. So it is always best to have an open heart and open mind when entering a reading. Be sure you want to know the truth when asking a question, and decide if you are ready to handle either the good or the bad. 

        This brings me to another point. I have heard of people coming to psychics with fears that they were being cursed by someone in their past. Literally, I am not lying, the psychic knew that this client's fears was in their own mind... But the psychic didn't say anything. The psychic let the client continue thinking they were cursed to they would continue to purchase readings and spells or a healing. You may find this hard to believe, but I swear I am being honest. It shocked me too when the psychic told me. We were chatting about spiritual practices and it led to that. The reason I am sharing this today is so all of you will know that sometimes not genuine psychics will do this. If the answers your psychic is giving you always seems to be good and exactly what you want to hear, know that they may not be genuine. Sure, it is possible that things always seem to go your way... but in reality when is that always the case? Sometimes the answers to questions may not always be the best option available, but it is the psychic's obligation to be completely honest. Even if that means the client will get angry or upset and not come to you anymore. For example you purchase a reading from me. You want to know why you are having bad luck in relationships. Ideally you may want to hear that it is everyone else's fault or you haven't found Mr. or Miss right. However I may get the answer that you are pushing these people away with insecurities, your expectations are too high, you're moving into relationships too fast, etc. Nobody really is ever ready to hear that they are at fault, but let's face it... We are all at fault sometimes. Nobody is perfect, and everyone makes mistakes. But let's just say that I give you that answer even though I know you may be upset with me and perhaps even give a bad review because you will be mad. Regardless of how I feel you will react, it is my obligation to give you that honest answer as long as I do it with love and let you know honestly how to overcome it. But some psychics may tell you what you want to hear to save all that. "You haven't found your soul mate yet. That is the problem. All the people you've met were all wrong for you, etc. You will meet your destined match soon and all will be perfect." This answer surely would make you feel wonderful, but if the problem really was those things I mentioned above, is this fluffy answer going to help you in the long run? No. 

        So these were all basics guides to figure out if a psychic is genuine. In your quest to find the answers to questions you seek, it is best to think carefully in the way you will get them. I have seen many clients who will ask multiple psychics the same exact question until they reach an answer they like. This is like cheating, and it isn't good for your soul. I have also seem clients to go to psychics for every single life event or decision they have to make. This isn't good for your soul either, because it is giving your power to choose away. A psychic should empower the client and teach the client that they hold the keys, and all will fall into place with the right guidance. A psychic should be honest, and give the true answers. A psychic should be compassionate and caring, they should not argue with the client at any moment, even if the client upset and angry. A psychic must always seek the answers from their spirit guides and higher selves. A psychic generally does not need any tools such as pendulums, tarot cards, or rune stones to answer. Even though these can be used, they genuine psychic will not use these as a crutch. So if your psychic is ALWAYS giving you a tarot card with an answer, know that they may be using the cards as a crutch.

        It is my hope that this article will help you seek a genuine psychic who you can build a friendly relationship with, and get the answers you seek. If you have any follow up questions about anything we discussed here please comment or send us a message. Thank you and have a beautiful day!!

Cosmic Blessings,
Melody








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